Introduction time ... Gods I feel like I’m on the fucking ‘Mickey Mouse Show’ or ‘The Dating Game’ … or perhaps even some really twisted version of the two. And I feel this way because I just realized that there are people out there who are starting to read the garbage that I spew this blog, and some of them have no clue who I am, much less who the cast of characters in my life are since I do try and use nicknames and such. So here is a short introduction to the shenanigans and hooligans in my life.
Bex – that would be me, your tour guide to this funhouse I call my life. I am a lot of different things; from being a nerdy goth girl who loves comic books and Glee to the fact I am FM sufferer who is a full time wife and mom. I am proud to one more woman reclaiming the word Slut. I dislike most feminists; mainly just the ones who have issue with the choices I have made for myself. The ones that think that I’m a ‘sell-out’ to other women because I love porn, just to name one thing that they have issue with. I don’t have any problems with God, it’s just most of his followers and the book that they quote from that I have problems with. I’m openly bi-sexual; no this does not mean that I want to have a three-some with you or anything else like that, so please do us both a favor and don’t ask or suggest it, kthxbi.
IMPORTANT; This blog is my journey through this thing I call life. NOTHING is off topic here … and I do mean nothing. I am going to be brutally honest about who I am as a woman, and the road that got me here. That road includes talking about the molestation I endured as a child, my abusive first marriage and the amazingly good relationship I have with Mr.Bex. WARNING; There WILL be very frank talk about sex, especially about my personal sex life. I have cleared this with Mr. Bex and he is ok with me sharing as much as I am comfortable with sharing. So that means, if you know either of us in real life and it will bother or embarrass YOU to know these things about us, do us both a favor … please do not read this blog anymore. It is really that simple.
Mr. Bex - My best friend, my partner, my lover, my husband. He truly is the most amazing guy in the world, a caring respectful guy who pushes me to spread my wings and fly. He is my biggest fan as well as my harshest critic when I need it. He believes in me so much that I can’t help but believe in myself as well because of him. There is a reason one of my friends and I have a whyiloveMrBex hashtag on twitter. He really is made of that much win.
The Boy – The 11 year old alien life form that I am step-monster to, seriously boys are strange alien forms at this age. Girls I understand just a bit more, since I am one, and I do have an ‘adult’ daughter. Boy is a wonderful child with ADD and Asperger's who has never known his birth mom, so it’s a bumpy ride for both of us, but I love him so much, it’s worth it.
The Girl – Temporary nickname for my ‘adult’ bio-daughter … I say adult like that because while she is 21 years old, legally an adult, she is still very much just a teenager. Currently feeling estranged from her since we don’t talk or text as much as we used to now that she is back living with MDF.
MDF – My daughter’s Father, the person formerly known as Douche-Bag on here. I realized that as much as he is a D-B, I have forgiven him and I don’t need the anger and bitterness that comes with calling him that name. So from here on out he is MDF, because that is all he is to me anymore, he is just her father, nothing more.
There are others that will appear from time to time, and I will be adding to this list as need be, I just wanted to get this up now, mainly because of the warning on it.
